Many adolescents (and some adults...
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Many adolescents (and some adults who never matured beyond that stage) seek out their best-looking and most popular peers for their Friday night date. To these people, their date's external attractiveness is a matter of "public pride." They believe that their date's physical attractiveness will make them "look better" in the eyes of their friends. As young people experience life and grow toward maturity, they often discover that some of their closest friends are beautiful on the inside but rather plain (or even ugly!) on the outside. As they struggle with this reality, and as lasting relationships become more and more important in their lives, their values sometimes shift. They begin to choose their friends and Friday night dates based upon character and personality instead of physical attractiveness. They choose solid conversations and challenging interactions over mere appearances. The public "external" diminishes in importance as the depth of relationship grows. Jesus challenges us to dig deeply into our relationship with God -- through prayer and generous love without concern for how good we look in the eyes of our friends and colleagues. Jesus knows that this relationship brings life in all its fullness and that the rewards of such a relationship are great. -- Spencer
