Mark and Julie remember how...
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Mark and Julie remember how hectic Christmas celebrations were when they were first married. Both of their parents insisted that they spend Christmas Day with them. The problem was that their parents lived in different towns. Before dawn, Mark and Julie would leave to travel to Julie's parents' home. They would arrive mid-morning. They would open presents and then sit down to eat dinner. By early afternoon they would leave for Mark's parents, arriving later that afternoon. They would again open presents and eat dinner with Mark's parents. They would return home around midnight exhausted from their long day.
Julie told Mark that all the traveling took the joy out of Christmas. Mark agreed. When Suzie was born, they would have to pack baby food, diapers, a portable crib, and other things. Suzie would miss her regular nap times and become irritable. This practice continued for a few more years.
One day Julie was alone with her mother and she shared how all the travel and rushing from parent to parent on Christmas Day took the joy out of the celebration. Julie's mother understood, recalling her own days of trying to please both sets of parents. Julie's mother said that they would not have to visit them on Christmas Day. That would cut considerable travel from their schedule. They could visit with Julie's parents some other time. "Any time you come will be Christmas Day" her mom told her. Julie was relieved.
Julie and Mark experienced Christmas grace: They would no longer have to strive to please both sets of parents in one day. The next Christmas, joy returned to their family celebration.
At the beginning of Advent may we focus on Jesus, the reason why we celebrate Christmas, and may we do so with joyful hearts. The apostle Paul wrote, "I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that has been given you in Christ Jesus."
Julie told Mark that all the traveling took the joy out of Christmas. Mark agreed. When Suzie was born, they would have to pack baby food, diapers, a portable crib, and other things. Suzie would miss her regular nap times and become irritable. This practice continued for a few more years.
One day Julie was alone with her mother and she shared how all the travel and rushing from parent to parent on Christmas Day took the joy out of the celebration. Julie's mother understood, recalling her own days of trying to please both sets of parents. Julie's mother said that they would not have to visit them on Christmas Day. That would cut considerable travel from their schedule. They could visit with Julie's parents some other time. "Any time you come will be Christmas Day" her mom told her. Julie was relieved.
Julie and Mark experienced Christmas grace: They would no longer have to strive to please both sets of parents in one day. The next Christmas, joy returned to their family celebration.
At the beginning of Advent may we focus on Jesus, the reason why we celebrate Christmas, and may we do so with joyful hearts. The apostle Paul wrote, "I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that has been given you in Christ Jesus."
