My two teenage sons were...
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My two teenage sons were discussing possible dates for the high school prom. The younger son said to his brother, "Why don't you ask Wendy Lewis?" To this, my older son replied, "She would never go out with me!" Up to this point, this had been a private conversation, but after overhearing my oldest son's comments, I wanted to know why Wendy would not go out with him, so I asked him. This is the answer I received, "She is the prettiest girl in school! Everybody wants to go out with her!" "There are other girls," I replied, and I started to name a few. As I did, I found my sons laughing, "Why are you laughing?" I asked. To this, the young son replied, "Dad, you don't want to go to the prom with a dog. The other kids will make fun of you. It is very important who you go out with." "In other words," I asked, "you are only concerned with how a girl looks?" To this, the younger son replied, "What else is there?" As I walked away, I was thankful that I had outgrown those days, and I knew that one day they would too. And yet, as I reflected on that conversation, I was again reminded of how our society is hung up on appearances. People running for public office know how important it is to look good. Studies have been done which show that good-looking people get promoted over people who are not good looking. There are commercials on television for hair transplants, weight programs and hundreds of beauty products which will improve your looks. Often, on television talk shows we hear of movie stars who have undergone plastic surgery to improve their appearances. As a society, we are hung up on how a person looks. Thank goodness God is not concerned with how we look, but with what is in the heart. -- Frank
