One of the dynamics of...
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One of the dynamics of grief is the idealization of the deceased. David could almost be accused of this regarding Saul. After all, it was Saul who threw a spear at him and chased him with his army. Yet, David had respect for Saul as God's anointed king and expressed his devotion to God by his loyalty to his king. So, in grief, David honored Saul as the chosen leader of God's people. This perspective gave David a healthy measure of humility, respect and forgiveness.
