In real life, most of...
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In real life, most of us do just about anything to keep others from discovering who we really are. We hope that we can get people to pay attention to our house or to our car or to our clothes. We hope that people will pay attention to those things and judge us based on them. Or if we have a blemish, we'll do just about anything to hide it, so that others won't be able to see it. Or if someone asks us how we are doing, instead of telling the truth and saying, "My life is in shambles," we end up hiding our true selves from others and saying, "Oh, I'm fine. Everything's wonderful." We're afraid to let others see the real us for fear that they won't like the real us.
-- Bowen
-- Bowen