Relationships are important to us...
Relationships are important to us. In the past, relationships defined a person. You were not just "Daniel." You were Daniel, husband of Anna, son of John, nephew of Clarence, and so on. When last names cropped up, many of them reflected relationships: Thompson, Johnson, Samuelson, Paulson. Today, our family ties connect us to people who understand where we come from; our friendships connect us to people who understand who we are and who we want to be. There are different kinds of relationships: family, friends, romantic interests. In each type of relationship, we look for different things.