Appearance means so much to...
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Appearance means so much to us. The manufacture and sale of cosmetics is a major industry, based on convincing people of the need to "cover up" small imperfections, and the desire to put a new face over the one God has given us. Plastic surgeons now advertise widely that they can give us the faces and bodies we have always dreamed of. Our artificial standards of beauty make it hard for us to deal with those we call disfigured or deformed. We turn away from what we have defined for ourselves as ugliness.
It is far easier for a person with disabilities to learn to live with themselves than with our reactions to them. Yet one of the most beautiful persons I have ever known would have been called physically "ugly" according to the standards of this world. Yet there was no ugliness about her. An inner gentleness and loveliness of spirit shone from her face. She had a serenity unmatched by anyone else I have ever met. While the "beautiful people" of this world are often shallow and grasping, she had a depth of joy beyond compare, I find it ironic that most of our portraits of Jesus picture him fair and handsome. Despised "as one from whom others hide their faces," I suspect that the beauty of Jesus was like the true and inner beauty of my friend, having little to do with outward appearance.
--Curley
It is far easier for a person with disabilities to learn to live with themselves than with our reactions to them. Yet one of the most beautiful persons I have ever known would have been called physically "ugly" according to the standards of this world. Yet there was no ugliness about her. An inner gentleness and loveliness of spirit shone from her face. She had a serenity unmatched by anyone else I have ever met. While the "beautiful people" of this world are often shallow and grasping, she had a depth of joy beyond compare, I find it ironic that most of our portraits of Jesus picture him fair and handsome. Despised "as one from whom others hide their faces," I suspect that the beauty of Jesus was like the true and inner beauty of my friend, having little to do with outward appearance.
--Curley
