Ask a roomful of kindergarteners...
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Ask a roomful of kindergarteners for a volunteer, and almost every hand will shoot up in the air. Some of them will practically jump up and down, wanting so badly to be chosen. Compare that to a group of high schoolers; or, better yet, a group of adults. “May I have a volunteer?” Silence. Uneasy glances. Finally, one person signals — not a hand in the air, but maybe a quick wave, like he’s at an auction. It’s an “I-guess-I’ll-do-it” gesture. On the inside, he might be as excited as one of those kindergarteners, stretching his arm toward the stars in hopes that he will be chosen; but as an adult, it’s cool to slide by — to say, “If there’s no one else....” Outward excitement isn’t something we encourage so much in adults.
