Authority at its best is...
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Authority at its best is something that can be given, but can never be taken. In that sense, love and authority are both matters of the heart. They may be granted by one to the other, but they cannot be grabbed or demanded.
Since he was the King of Israel, David had the power to force Bathsheba into his bed, but that doesn't mean he had the authority to do so, nor does it mean that she loved him. David had the power to have Uriah put to death, but he didn't have the authority to do so. We don't know much about Bathsheba. But we couldn't blame her if she despised David for raping her and murdering her husband.
This story makes it clear that abuse of power in relationships displeases the Lord. Yet I have listened to people time and again who think that God himself acts like King David. Some people have the impression that God uses his power to force us to pay homage and allegiance to him; that all God wants is to hear people say, "I love God," even though there's no more heart in it than "heil Hitler!" True love is not a power play. I can fall in love, but I cannot be forced to love. Forced "love" isn't love at all. It is rape.
Unlike David in this story, God wins our love by first loving us. I suppose it would be as if the poor man in Nathan's illustration willingly, full of love, yet with a broken heart gave up his little ewe lamb so that his neighbor could have a feast with his guest.
--Kaul
Since he was the King of Israel, David had the power to force Bathsheba into his bed, but that doesn't mean he had the authority to do so, nor does it mean that she loved him. David had the power to have Uriah put to death, but he didn't have the authority to do so. We don't know much about Bathsheba. But we couldn't blame her if she despised David for raping her and murdering her husband.
This story makes it clear that abuse of power in relationships displeases the Lord. Yet I have listened to people time and again who think that God himself acts like King David. Some people have the impression that God uses his power to force us to pay homage and allegiance to him; that all God wants is to hear people say, "I love God," even though there's no more heart in it than "heil Hitler!" True love is not a power play. I can fall in love, but I cannot be forced to love. Forced "love" isn't love at all. It is rape.
Unlike David in this story, God wins our love by first loving us. I suppose it would be as if the poor man in Nathan's illustration willingly, full of love, yet with a broken heart gave up his little ewe lamb so that his neighbor could have a feast with his guest.
--Kaul
