When Joan found out that...
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When Joan found out that her best friend, Emily, had been killed in an automobile accident, Joan was in shock. Her friend of 48 years would never again step on her front porch. They would never share coffee over discussions about politics, the latest news, or religion. They would never cry on each other's shoulders when they missed their husbands. They would never share their Friday night pepperoni-and-mushroom pizza.
When Joan's husband died, Emily was there. And when Emily's husband died ten years later, Joan moved in with Emily for two months. Emily moved back to the neighborhood after that and they visited daily.
Then Joan got the call. Emily had died instantly when a vehicle collided with hers. Gone forever were the friendship, laughter, and the tears shared.
Joan went away after that. She grieved, screamed, laughed, remembered, and very slowly healed. She had to turn inward to overcome her grief. Over time, she was strong enough to reach out again and begin new friendships, discovering she needed to tend to herself first before she could effectively help others.
-- Berg
When Joan's husband died, Emily was there. And when Emily's husband died ten years later, Joan moved in with Emily for two months. Emily moved back to the neighborhood after that and they visited daily.
Then Joan got the call. Emily had died instantly when a vehicle collided with hers. Gone forever were the friendship, laughter, and the tears shared.
Joan went away after that. She grieved, screamed, laughed, remembered, and very slowly healed. She had to turn inward to overcome her grief. Over time, she was strong enough to reach out again and begin new friendships, discovering she needed to tend to herself first before she could effectively help others.
-- Berg
