Blessed Among Women
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A More Urgent Season
Sermons And Children's Lessons
No one knows what she looked like. European artists have made her look European. African artists have made her look African. Native American artists have drawn her in their image, as have artists from South America, the Far East and nearly every other part of the world as well. In a sense, she has become the universal woman, adapted in every generation to every race and culture. One thing, however, artists everywhere have agreed upon: they have all depicted her as pious, thoughtful and serene. "She," of course, is Mary, the mother of Jesus. When Elizabeth, pregnant with John the Baptist, first saw her, she exclaimed, "Blessed are you among women," and so it has been ever since. After Jesus Himself, no one has been more venerated, more honored or revered than this young girl from first century Israel. "Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee ..." Hail the Blessed Virgin, the New Eve, Holy Mary, Mother of Mercy, Mother of God.
Before she became a statue in a church or an object of adoration in peoples' hearts, she was a woman and a person, and it is that part of Mary we want to recover this morning. What was she like? What kind of woman would be chosen by God to bear His Son, and what kind of woman would have the faith and grace to do it?
There are the usual qualities we traditionally think of. For example, we think of Mary as someone who was willing to take risks. She risked rejection by Joseph and even stoning by the other men in her village for being pregnant before she was married. She risked her own health and even her life by traveling to Bethlehem so close to term, and then giving birth unattended in a rude stable. She risked her life again by fleeing with Joseph to Egypt when a brutal dictator named Herod was seeking to kill her son.
Along with her courage, we traditionally think of Mary's humility, holding it up as a model of faithfulness in an age when humility is radically out of fashion. "Here am I, the servant of the Lord," she said; "let it be with me according to Your word." Here God was proposing not only an "unplanned pregnancy" but a dangerous one at that, and Mary did not refuse. She did not insist on her moral autonomy, her right to self-fulfillment or her freedom to control her body or her life. Instead, she yielded both to God, that she might be an instrument of His will. "Let it be with me according to Your word." Mary allowed herself to be used and permitted her life to be changed forever in service to a higher good. Today that kind of self-subordination is condemned in many circles by women and men alike, who consider it "old-fashioned," "repressive" or "unliberated." It may be all of that and more in the eyes of the world, but Mary's spirit of self-giving obedience and humility surely remains beautiful in the eyes of God who wishes to see more of it in both men and women today.
Besides the courage and humility we usually associate with Mary, Luke's gospel tells us much more about her, because the opening chapters are written almost entirely from Mary's point of view.
Even as Luke first introduces us to Mary, as she encounters the angel Gabriel, we see that while Mary is faithful and obedient, she still has a mind of her own. Gabriel greets her by calling her "favored one," and immediately, the text says Mary is "perplexed." She "ponders what sort of greeting this might be." (1:28-29)
Perhaps she senses that to be favored by God is to have your life turned upside down. Perhaps she recalls her Old Testament scriptures, which amply demonstrate that people pay a price in this world for acting as servants of God. At any rate, we know that even before she was told about Jesus, Mary was wondering whether this calling from God was something she wanted to get involved with.
Then, when Gabriel tells her she will conceive a son, we see the practical and skeptical side of Mary. "How can this be," she asks, "since I am a virgin?" (Luke 1:34) At this point, she is thinking not of heavenly possibilities but biological realities. Mary is also becoming part of a long tradition of people who argue and debate with God before accepting His will for their lives. Moses said he was unfit when God called him as leader of the Israelites. (Exodus 4:1ff) Jeremiah claimed he was too young when God called him to be a prophet. (Jeremiah 1:6) Jonah headed off in the opposite direction when God gave him a mission in Nineveh. (Jonah 1:3ff) As so many biblical people had done before her, Mary demonstrates that God does not call self-effacing doormats into His service. He summons real people with real questions, objections, doubts and fears. It was only human for Mary to have them, as it is only human that we have them, too. Our text shows Mary joining another tradition as well, a long line of women in the Bible -- foremothers of our faith -- who were chosen by God for special duties. Some, like Deborah or Jael, were judges or military leaders. But within this tradition is a smaller group of women whom God chose to bring special children into the world. They include Sarah, the aged wife of Abraham, who became the "Mother of Nations" by bearing Isaac, (Genesis 8:12) and Rachel, the mother of Joseph. (Genesis 30:22) We have already mentioned Elizabeth, mother of John the Baptist. And then there was Mary.
These women were chosen for motherhood, but they were more than mere vessels for delivering children. They became interpreters of God's will, reflecting on their own experience of pregnancy and motherhood to understand how God works in the world.
This is precisely what we see in our Old Testament lesson, where we meet a woman named Hannah, who lived a thousand years before Mary was born. Now, Hannah had been barren all her life, despite years of praying and pleading for a child. She daily felt the shame of her childlessness from other women in a culture where fertility was considered a sign of God's favor.
Finally, God gave a very special child to Hannah; his name was Samuel and he became the last of Israel's great judges. Of course, Hannah was ecstatic, and our text shows her expressing her joy in words of praise: "My heart exults in the Lord," she says, "my strength is exalted in my God."
Then she goes on to interpret what her own particular story reveals about the purposes of God. The pregnancy of a forlorn, barren woman like her is a sign, she declares, that "The bows of the mighty are broken, [and] the feeble gird on strength." God "raises up the poor from the dust; He lifts the needy from the ash heap." This is God's way in the world, Hannah is saying, and the fact that God would favor with a child a downtrodden woman like her is living proof of it.
A thousand years later, Mary echoed Hannah's words as she interpreted her own situation in light of the methods, the mind and the will of God. By favoring a poor, obscure girl like her, Mary says, God has "scattered the proud in the imagination of their hearts." By passing over other women who possessed more wealth, prestige or comfort and choosing Mary instead, God has "brought down the mighty from their thrones and lifted up the lowly." By placing Himself among the poor and homeless, God has "filled the hungry with good things and sent the rich empty away."
Here is Mary -- thoughtful, serene, obedient Mary -- giving us the good news of Christ's birth in all its radical fullness! Here is Mary making sense of why God chose her among all women and explaining to the rest of us that when God's will is enacted in the world, He radically inverts our worldly values. When God's will is enacted in the world, the last become first and the first become last; the dishonored are exalted and the honored are humbled.
As we live by the ways of the world, honoring the rich and fawning over the famous, God comes to Bethlehem to honor the poor and bless the obscure. As we honor those with power and might, God comes to a stable to honor the powerless and the meek of the earth. As we honor all that is flashy and spectacular, God shows that His way is as humble as a manger and simple as a solitary star. Did not the ancient prophet say, "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord." (Isaiah 55:8) This is also the message of Mary's Magnificat, arising from her own reflection on her womanly experience as well as her knowledge of Old Testament scripture.
Mary was a woman of noble virtues, such as courage, obedience and humility. She had a mind of her own and even had her doubts, but she was willing to endure any hardship to do God's will. She stands in a long tradition of biblical women who interpreted God's ways to the world. Yet we can say all of this about Mary and still not reveal what is most important about her. What matters most about Mary is that she was a regular, ordinary person.
She declares as much in our text. "God has looked with favor upon the lowliness of His servant," she says. She is a simple peasant girl, engaged to a carpenter and living in a dusty little village in a dusty little nation. She never calls herself anything unique or special, never claims to be more educated, refined or worthy in any way than anyone else. In fact, Mary realizes that the glory which has come to her is all God's doing: "The Mighty One has done great things for me," she confesses. She will be blessed among women for all eternity because she was an ordinary, unspectacular girl who said "yes" to a spectacular calling from God.
There is an important spiritual lesson to be learned here, which is that God doesn't need people who are unusually strong or bright or well-to-do to be His servants. God doesn't need people who are exceptionally well-educated or skilled to do his will -- ordinary folks will do just fine. In fact, if you think about it for a moment, ordinary people are all God has to work with, so there is no reason for any of us to say no to His summons to service!
Like Mary and countless other servants before her and since, we think of all the reasons God can't be calling us to ministry in His name. We aren't good or deserving enough. We aren't faithful or religious enough. We don't have this, that or the other thing which would commend us to God or qualify us for His service.
The problem with this is that we assume too much of ourselves and too little of God when we think in those terms. We assume that God's work is always so monumental and earth-shaking that we need special gifts or talents to be useful to Him, when the truth is that God doesn't need any of that from us! God doesn't need the strength of our flesh but the willingness of our spirit. God is so great and His power so glorious that all He needs is for average, everyday people like you and me to submit our wills to His.
Mary's soul magnified the Lord as she received God's Son and brought Him into the world, and she is venerated by Christians around the world because of it. In some branches of the church, it is even said that Mary, like Jesus Himself, was born sinlessly and ascended bodily up to heaven after she died.
All of that is well and good, and historically, those branches of the Christian church have had certain theological reasons for revering Mary in this way. I am not here to condemn any of that. But perhaps we do Mary and ourselves a spiritual disservice if we put her on too high a pedestal, if we endow her with such superior qualities as to place her beyond the reach of our human nature. Mary is blessed among women today not because she was unusually able or radically different from anyone else, but because she was a simple, ordinary girl who allowed God's glory to shine through her. If she were any different -- if she were somehow superhuman in some special sense -- we would not have to challenge ourselves to be as faithful and obedient as she was. No, Mary was a simple, ordinary person in God's sight just as we are, which makes her life all the more inspiring and her story all the more compelling to Christians today. Amen.
Pastoral Prayer
God of wonder and God of light, we continue to stand in awe at the way You brought Your Son into the world, and we thank You for the ordinary people who helped You do it. In particular, we thank You for the service of Mary, whose courage, faith and thoughtful serenity continue to appeal to us today. We ask that the example she set inspire our own virtues, helping us to rise above the world's worship of self to follow Mary's higher path of humility, obedience and self-giving service.
Most of all, dear God, we ask that You put within our hearts a clear understanding of the service You desire from each one of us. While we are aware of our weaknesses, do not let that awareness excuse us from allowing Your divine strength to work through us. Make us more eager to say yes to Your will, that like Mary, we may gladly bear the cost of Your service until our souls are magnifying our Lord with power, purpose and praise forever. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen.
Children's Lesson For Fourth Sunday In Advent
Tell God When You Are Happy
Luke 1:39-56
"And Mary said, 'My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.' " (vv. 46-47)
Have you had any complaints lately at home, any situations in which you told your parents you didn't like something? Have you had to do something or eat something you didn't like lately? (Let them answer.)
That's right, you let your parents know what you thought of the creamed asparagus they made you eat, or how your bedtime is unfair because your friend down the street gets to stay up later. You may have mentioned once or twice (perhaps in a rather loud and insistent voice) that you didn't think you were dirty enough to take a bath. If you have brothers and sisters, I am sure you complained when your sister got three pieces of bacon and you only got two, or when your older brother got a new bike and you got the one he used to have.
Now let me ask you: have you ever told your parents when you are happy about something? Did you tell them you liked the dinner they cooked, or you appreciated the way they took time off from work to see your school play? When you have a wonderful day at school, or when everything just seems to be going right for you, do you come home and tell your parents all about it?
I'll bet you are much quicker to tell your parents when you are unhappy than when you are happy. For example, when you are playing with your friends, you don't come running to your parents just to tell them what a great time you are having. But if your friend knocks you down, or if you get into an argument about the rules of the game, you come running and screaming to your parents in a minute, right! Most people are like that -- bad news is louder than good news.
The point is, we are the same way with God. We talk to God when we have problems, or when we are worried about something, or when we want something we do not have, and that is all well and good. It's perfectly all right to share our burdens with God and pray to Him when all is not well. But don't you think God also wants to hear from us when we are happy, too? Don't you think we can also talk to God when we are joyful and generally pleased with our lives?
That's what Mary did at the beginning of the Christmas story. When Mary learned that she was to give birth to Jesus, she was very happy. In fact, she was overjoyed, and the very first thing she did was tell God how she felt. She said, "My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior." ("My soul declares how great God is, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.") Just as parents love to hear from their children when they are glad, I am sure that Mary's prayer of joy pleased God as well.
Long after Christmas is over and the presents are all unwrapped, there will be other things to make you glad in the year ahead. So remember Mary and take her example to heart. Don't just tell God when you are sad or upset about something; tell God when you are happy as well. Amen.
Before she became a statue in a church or an object of adoration in peoples' hearts, she was a woman and a person, and it is that part of Mary we want to recover this morning. What was she like? What kind of woman would be chosen by God to bear His Son, and what kind of woman would have the faith and grace to do it?
There are the usual qualities we traditionally think of. For example, we think of Mary as someone who was willing to take risks. She risked rejection by Joseph and even stoning by the other men in her village for being pregnant before she was married. She risked her own health and even her life by traveling to Bethlehem so close to term, and then giving birth unattended in a rude stable. She risked her life again by fleeing with Joseph to Egypt when a brutal dictator named Herod was seeking to kill her son.
Along with her courage, we traditionally think of Mary's humility, holding it up as a model of faithfulness in an age when humility is radically out of fashion. "Here am I, the servant of the Lord," she said; "let it be with me according to Your word." Here God was proposing not only an "unplanned pregnancy" but a dangerous one at that, and Mary did not refuse. She did not insist on her moral autonomy, her right to self-fulfillment or her freedom to control her body or her life. Instead, she yielded both to God, that she might be an instrument of His will. "Let it be with me according to Your word." Mary allowed herself to be used and permitted her life to be changed forever in service to a higher good. Today that kind of self-subordination is condemned in many circles by women and men alike, who consider it "old-fashioned," "repressive" or "unliberated." It may be all of that and more in the eyes of the world, but Mary's spirit of self-giving obedience and humility surely remains beautiful in the eyes of God who wishes to see more of it in both men and women today.
Besides the courage and humility we usually associate with Mary, Luke's gospel tells us much more about her, because the opening chapters are written almost entirely from Mary's point of view.
Even as Luke first introduces us to Mary, as she encounters the angel Gabriel, we see that while Mary is faithful and obedient, she still has a mind of her own. Gabriel greets her by calling her "favored one," and immediately, the text says Mary is "perplexed." She "ponders what sort of greeting this might be." (1:28-29)
Perhaps she senses that to be favored by God is to have your life turned upside down. Perhaps she recalls her Old Testament scriptures, which amply demonstrate that people pay a price in this world for acting as servants of God. At any rate, we know that even before she was told about Jesus, Mary was wondering whether this calling from God was something she wanted to get involved with.
Then, when Gabriel tells her she will conceive a son, we see the practical and skeptical side of Mary. "How can this be," she asks, "since I am a virgin?" (Luke 1:34) At this point, she is thinking not of heavenly possibilities but biological realities. Mary is also becoming part of a long tradition of people who argue and debate with God before accepting His will for their lives. Moses said he was unfit when God called him as leader of the Israelites. (Exodus 4:1ff) Jeremiah claimed he was too young when God called him to be a prophet. (Jeremiah 1:6) Jonah headed off in the opposite direction when God gave him a mission in Nineveh. (Jonah 1:3ff) As so many biblical people had done before her, Mary demonstrates that God does not call self-effacing doormats into His service. He summons real people with real questions, objections, doubts and fears. It was only human for Mary to have them, as it is only human that we have them, too. Our text shows Mary joining another tradition as well, a long line of women in the Bible -- foremothers of our faith -- who were chosen by God for special duties. Some, like Deborah or Jael, were judges or military leaders. But within this tradition is a smaller group of women whom God chose to bring special children into the world. They include Sarah, the aged wife of Abraham, who became the "Mother of Nations" by bearing Isaac, (Genesis 8:12) and Rachel, the mother of Joseph. (Genesis 30:22) We have already mentioned Elizabeth, mother of John the Baptist. And then there was Mary.
These women were chosen for motherhood, but they were more than mere vessels for delivering children. They became interpreters of God's will, reflecting on their own experience of pregnancy and motherhood to understand how God works in the world.
This is precisely what we see in our Old Testament lesson, where we meet a woman named Hannah, who lived a thousand years before Mary was born. Now, Hannah had been barren all her life, despite years of praying and pleading for a child. She daily felt the shame of her childlessness from other women in a culture where fertility was considered a sign of God's favor.
Finally, God gave a very special child to Hannah; his name was Samuel and he became the last of Israel's great judges. Of course, Hannah was ecstatic, and our text shows her expressing her joy in words of praise: "My heart exults in the Lord," she says, "my strength is exalted in my God."
Then she goes on to interpret what her own particular story reveals about the purposes of God. The pregnancy of a forlorn, barren woman like her is a sign, she declares, that "The bows of the mighty are broken, [and] the feeble gird on strength." God "raises up the poor from the dust; He lifts the needy from the ash heap." This is God's way in the world, Hannah is saying, and the fact that God would favor with a child a downtrodden woman like her is living proof of it.
A thousand years later, Mary echoed Hannah's words as she interpreted her own situation in light of the methods, the mind and the will of God. By favoring a poor, obscure girl like her, Mary says, God has "scattered the proud in the imagination of their hearts." By passing over other women who possessed more wealth, prestige or comfort and choosing Mary instead, God has "brought down the mighty from their thrones and lifted up the lowly." By placing Himself among the poor and homeless, God has "filled the hungry with good things and sent the rich empty away."
Here is Mary -- thoughtful, serene, obedient Mary -- giving us the good news of Christ's birth in all its radical fullness! Here is Mary making sense of why God chose her among all women and explaining to the rest of us that when God's will is enacted in the world, He radically inverts our worldly values. When God's will is enacted in the world, the last become first and the first become last; the dishonored are exalted and the honored are humbled.
As we live by the ways of the world, honoring the rich and fawning over the famous, God comes to Bethlehem to honor the poor and bless the obscure. As we honor those with power and might, God comes to a stable to honor the powerless and the meek of the earth. As we honor all that is flashy and spectacular, God shows that His way is as humble as a manger and simple as a solitary star. Did not the ancient prophet say, "For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, says the Lord." (Isaiah 55:8) This is also the message of Mary's Magnificat, arising from her own reflection on her womanly experience as well as her knowledge of Old Testament scripture.
Mary was a woman of noble virtues, such as courage, obedience and humility. She had a mind of her own and even had her doubts, but she was willing to endure any hardship to do God's will. She stands in a long tradition of biblical women who interpreted God's ways to the world. Yet we can say all of this about Mary and still not reveal what is most important about her. What matters most about Mary is that she was a regular, ordinary person.
She declares as much in our text. "God has looked with favor upon the lowliness of His servant," she says. She is a simple peasant girl, engaged to a carpenter and living in a dusty little village in a dusty little nation. She never calls herself anything unique or special, never claims to be more educated, refined or worthy in any way than anyone else. In fact, Mary realizes that the glory which has come to her is all God's doing: "The Mighty One has done great things for me," she confesses. She will be blessed among women for all eternity because she was an ordinary, unspectacular girl who said "yes" to a spectacular calling from God.
There is an important spiritual lesson to be learned here, which is that God doesn't need people who are unusually strong or bright or well-to-do to be His servants. God doesn't need people who are exceptionally well-educated or skilled to do his will -- ordinary folks will do just fine. In fact, if you think about it for a moment, ordinary people are all God has to work with, so there is no reason for any of us to say no to His summons to service!
Like Mary and countless other servants before her and since, we think of all the reasons God can't be calling us to ministry in His name. We aren't good or deserving enough. We aren't faithful or religious enough. We don't have this, that or the other thing which would commend us to God or qualify us for His service.
The problem with this is that we assume too much of ourselves and too little of God when we think in those terms. We assume that God's work is always so monumental and earth-shaking that we need special gifts or talents to be useful to Him, when the truth is that God doesn't need any of that from us! God doesn't need the strength of our flesh but the willingness of our spirit. God is so great and His power so glorious that all He needs is for average, everyday people like you and me to submit our wills to His.
Mary's soul magnified the Lord as she received God's Son and brought Him into the world, and she is venerated by Christians around the world because of it. In some branches of the church, it is even said that Mary, like Jesus Himself, was born sinlessly and ascended bodily up to heaven after she died.
All of that is well and good, and historically, those branches of the Christian church have had certain theological reasons for revering Mary in this way. I am not here to condemn any of that. But perhaps we do Mary and ourselves a spiritual disservice if we put her on too high a pedestal, if we endow her with such superior qualities as to place her beyond the reach of our human nature. Mary is blessed among women today not because she was unusually able or radically different from anyone else, but because she was a simple, ordinary girl who allowed God's glory to shine through her. If she were any different -- if she were somehow superhuman in some special sense -- we would not have to challenge ourselves to be as faithful and obedient as she was. No, Mary was a simple, ordinary person in God's sight just as we are, which makes her life all the more inspiring and her story all the more compelling to Christians today. Amen.
Pastoral Prayer
God of wonder and God of light, we continue to stand in awe at the way You brought Your Son into the world, and we thank You for the ordinary people who helped You do it. In particular, we thank You for the service of Mary, whose courage, faith and thoughtful serenity continue to appeal to us today. We ask that the example she set inspire our own virtues, helping us to rise above the world's worship of self to follow Mary's higher path of humility, obedience and self-giving service.
Most of all, dear God, we ask that You put within our hearts a clear understanding of the service You desire from each one of us. While we are aware of our weaknesses, do not let that awareness excuse us from allowing Your divine strength to work through us. Make us more eager to say yes to Your will, that like Mary, we may gladly bear the cost of Your service until our souls are magnifying our Lord with power, purpose and praise forever. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen.
Children's Lesson For Fourth Sunday In Advent
Tell God When You Are Happy
Luke 1:39-56
"And Mary said, 'My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.' " (vv. 46-47)
Have you had any complaints lately at home, any situations in which you told your parents you didn't like something? Have you had to do something or eat something you didn't like lately? (Let them answer.)
That's right, you let your parents know what you thought of the creamed asparagus they made you eat, or how your bedtime is unfair because your friend down the street gets to stay up later. You may have mentioned once or twice (perhaps in a rather loud and insistent voice) that you didn't think you were dirty enough to take a bath. If you have brothers and sisters, I am sure you complained when your sister got three pieces of bacon and you only got two, or when your older brother got a new bike and you got the one he used to have.
Now let me ask you: have you ever told your parents when you are happy about something? Did you tell them you liked the dinner they cooked, or you appreciated the way they took time off from work to see your school play? When you have a wonderful day at school, or when everything just seems to be going right for you, do you come home and tell your parents all about it?
I'll bet you are much quicker to tell your parents when you are unhappy than when you are happy. For example, when you are playing with your friends, you don't come running to your parents just to tell them what a great time you are having. But if your friend knocks you down, or if you get into an argument about the rules of the game, you come running and screaming to your parents in a minute, right! Most people are like that -- bad news is louder than good news.
The point is, we are the same way with God. We talk to God when we have problems, or when we are worried about something, or when we want something we do not have, and that is all well and good. It's perfectly all right to share our burdens with God and pray to Him when all is not well. But don't you think God also wants to hear from us when we are happy, too? Don't you think we can also talk to God when we are joyful and generally pleased with our lives?
That's what Mary did at the beginning of the Christmas story. When Mary learned that she was to give birth to Jesus, she was very happy. In fact, she was overjoyed, and the very first thing she did was tell God how she felt. She said, "My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior." ("My soul declares how great God is, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior.") Just as parents love to hear from their children when they are glad, I am sure that Mary's prayer of joy pleased God as well.
Long after Christmas is over and the presents are all unwrapped, there will be other things to make you glad in the year ahead. So remember Mary and take her example to heart. Don't just tell God when you are sad or upset about something; tell God when you are happy as well. Amen.