Emphasis Preaching Journal
Commitment
Commentary
According to social researchers there are five basic reasons why people fail to make long-
term commitments such as marriage. First, some are hurt by a past relationship that came
undone in a nasty or painful way. "Once bitten, twice shy" is the way the modern proverb
puts it. Troublesome difficulties in a passionate romance where we allowed ourselves to
become vulnerable and then felt abused or misused by the object of our emotions can
cause us to pull back from similar future possibilities.

