One of my favorite novelists...
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One of my favorite novelists is Jan Karon, author of the Mitford series featuring Father Tim Kavanagh, an Episcopal priest. In her novel In the Company of Others, Father Tim and his wife visit Ireland staying at a bed and breakfast. Bella, the owners' daughter, is filled with bitterness and brokenness in her life. Innkeeper Anna knows that Father Tim's adopted son, Dooley, also came to him with brokenness in his life. Anna questions the priest on how he dealt with the anger that Dooley brought when he first moved in with him. Father Tim said, "It's not the sort of thing romantics wish to hear, but I found that in the end, love must be a kind of discipline. If we love only with our feelings, we're sunk -- we may feel love one day and something quite other the next." He continues with various ways that were a trial for him to overcome with Dooley. The boy was more smoke and mirrors, trying to take out his rage and bitterness. Author Karon has Father Tim saying, "I stopped praying for God to change Dooley; I asked God to change me -- to give me his eyes to see into the spirit of this exceptional broken boy."
When God's love abides in us he will help us to love others... even if they are broken and bitter.
When God's love abides in us he will help us to love others... even if they are broken and bitter.

