Perhaps your family, like mine, has certain traditional meals throughout the year.
We have, for example, a standard menu each Thanksgiving. We all know what will be served on that holiday together, and we all look forward to it. Of course, not every dish is each person’s favorite, but we would all be disappointed if anything was missing!
Similarly, we have some traditional things that we eat together on Christmas Day and New Year's Eve. There's one particular meal that I request each year on my birthday. And so it goes, year after year.